This is not a swipe app.

Find the love of your lifetime, a little differently.

Happy & Safe is a dating app for people who have done therapy and processed their issues. Everyone answers the same questions before creating an account.

How it works

This app takes effort.

If you are not ready to put in the effort, this app is not for you. The effort is worth it because it gives you the chance to meet a partner who approaches things the same way and is looking for a stable relationship. If you are not quite there yet, that is okay and other apps will suit you better for now. You are welcome back when this is what you are ready for.

Why we are different

  • Reflection passport as the gate to entry

    A structured reflection passport before you can create an account. The same passport for everyone.

  • Therapy is a condition of using the app

    Therapy guided by a qualified clinical professional, ongoing or completed, is a requirement for entry.

  • Your safety matters to us

    Minimal data, strong encryption. We do not pass your data on.

Who this is for

Adults of all genders and all orientations who are looking for a stable, lasting relationship and are ready to do the work for it.

Find the love of your lifetime, a little differently.